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“You seem so different with him than you were with your ex,” my friend told me.
“Isn’t that the point?” I replied. “It was a sloppy love full of mistakes because we were kids who didn’t know better. I was possessive of him because I didn’t feel secure, like the ground I was walking on would cave in at any moment. But he’s completely different. He makes me feel so safe, like we could survive any hurricane or tornado that comes our way. So yeah, I would hope that I’m different with him because if I wasn’t, it would mean that I didn’t learn from my mistakes and that would be a waste.- Jess Amelia (via jess-amelia)
(via jess-amelia)
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I say “I am a feminist”
and you laugh
because “Women have rights already”
And while you laugh at this movement
you are laughing at the 15 million girls who will become child brides this year alone
you are laughing at the millions of young girls sold into sex slavery
and at the 70% of women in India who are victims of domestic violence
and at the one in five rape victims in the United States
and at all of the people in the world who are discriminated against
because of something as simple as their gender
and in turn, I laugh at you
for your lack of an understanding
towards a movement that affects you
and everyone that you know and love
But I do not laugh at your rape jokes
I do not laugh when you tell me to “Shut up and make you a sandwich”
I do not laugh at your utter negligence to an issue as important as this
Because basic human rights are not funny
The very real experiences of those victimized
solely due to their sex
is not laughable
The suffering of my entire gender
is not a fucking joke that you are allowed to make.
- so stop treating it like it is. (via a-laa-mode)